[240 Crescent St., Northampton, Mass.]

T. S.Eliot
EmilyHale
TS
The Criterion
5 December 1936
My Dearest Girl,

I have not yet thanked you for your letter of the 23d. I have been very grateful for your writing so often as you have, in the midst of new work and new people, and for so often writing at such length. I should like to have been present invisible at the reading at Smith. ILieder, Paul Robert;a1 don’t remember Theobald – I remember Lieder of course, as I spent an evening at his house, after my talk at Smith.1 I had never known him at Harvard, but knew his face very well; I think he had taken some courses of lectures with me. When I met him at Smith, I found him very agreeable. I can imagine the torment of correcting papers and of giving marks for a kind of work which as you say is almost impossible to rate, since natural gifts of voice and family environment must give to some insuperable advantages over others. IAbbott, Senda Berenson;a1 do not remember Mrs. Abbott,2 butPerry, Rachel Berensona friend;a2 Mrs. Ralph Perry 3 was one of the most cultivated and agreeable women in Cambridge, and I regarded her as a friend. HerPerry, Ralph Barton;a2 husband was very dependent upon her, I think.

I hope you did not go to Boston for Thanksgiving; for in view of the shortness of time, and the fatigue, I don’t feel that you were called upon to do so. Christmas seems a very different matter. I hope you will be letting me know exactly where you will be for Christmas, both so that I can think of you there, and have the satisfaction, such as it is, of sending you a cable.

IBlunt, Alfred, Bishop of Bradford;a2 encloseBarnes, Ernest, Bishop of Birminghamand the Abdication Crisis;a2 the cuttings omitted from last night, though they will be ancient history by the time you get them. I am inclined to believe that the Bishop of Bradford was quite innocent of any intent to comment upon private life; though even so I regard one sentence of his speech as going farther than was necessary. It is all the more a pity, in that his rebuke to the Bishop of Birmingham was both called for and well expressed, and the bulk of his speech was first rate. I do not know him, but from what I have read of him have always regarded him as one of the best on the bench.

IChristianityretreat and solitude;c9the need for;a3 can well understand your depression of spirits especially at weekends, though for myself periods of solitude are what I must struggle to get. But I think that when one does not get enough of social life and personal relationships, it is difficult to make what one should out of solitude, and when one does not get enough of solitude, it is difficult to make the best of society and people and work among them. It is so very hard in life to keep the right balance, both in activity, opinions and feelings. Just asChristianitypolitics;c5Christianity versus Fascism and Communism;a5 it is so much easier to ‘take sides’ violently – theEuropethrough the 1930s;a2 whole of Europe might be described now as one great international civil war, both overt and latent, between sides neither of which in itself seems to me quite compatible with Christianity; and the attraction of thinking and feeling exactly like a great group of people deadens the feeling of loneliness which everyone has and which drives people to every sort of evasion and escape. SoEliot, Margaret Dawes (TSE's sister)in response to 1930s controversies;c3 also one sees on the one hand people like my sister Margaret, whose original interest in society was only so far as society ministered to her, finally removing themselves from society altogether and living a twilight life wrapped up in themselves: and on the other hand people so throwing themselves into the world, even if it is purely for good works, that they almost cease to exist when they are alone. I think to exist to the most of one’s capacity one needs both a deliberate and intelligent absorption in the affairs of other people and in the affairs of the world, and a deliberate and intelligent abstention and cultivation of oneself. Either'drugs'either public or inner life;a5 alone may defeat its own end: either social interest or self-training in one’s spiritual, mental and emotional life may become just a drug and a way of escape. We can’t criticise ourselves unless we live both inwardly and outwardly. One’s aim, I think, should be that both one’s social life and solitary life should be positive, so that one should not be merely a form of relief and escape from the other.

Sometimes the best help one can give another, I believe, is to expose one’s own needs, experience, and shortcomings also, and perhaps generalise them, rather than to talk too narrowly and precisely about the other person’s situation. For to see ourselves in a larger pattern (not simply to see the larger patterns and lose sight of ourselves) is one of our aims in making the best of ourselves.

When one is alone one tends either to do solitary work – thinking, writing, or reading discursively – or to idle and fritter. There are times for all these things of course; but the hard thing is to meditate, either in prayer or in very slow reading in which one concentrates on the effort to extract more and more meaning from a few words.

YesterdayWu Wen-Tsao;a1 I had Mr. and Mrs. Wu, two charming Chinese introduced by Ada, to tea;4 andAuden, Wystan Hugh ('W. H.')preoccupied with Byron and Barcelona;b4 also Wystan Auden, who is just finishing a book for us5 and a film for some film company, and at the end of the year intends to go to Barcelona to fight among some volunteers on the government side. That accounts for his having been thinking about Byron lately.6 Well, I hope he will come back.

ThecommunismTSE asked to sign Christian manifesto against;b2 day beforefascismTSE asked to sign Christian manifesto against;b1 I had to interview a young man who wanted me to sign a manifesto – to do with a sort of united Christian Front for democracy against fascism and communism (in England this is apt to mean wholly against fascism and for a mild socialism). HeTemple, William, Archbishop of York (later of Canterbury)incorrigible signatory;a8 seemed to think that because the Archbishop of York was going to sign it that ought to be good enough for me. I could not tell him straight out that I thought the Archbishop of York signed too many manifestoes. But I do think it is a dangerous illusion for people to think that when they have got up a manifesto they have done something, and satisfy their consciences so. A manifesto is merely a beginning of action, and usually they are so vague that they can lead to nothing – the moment people begin to be precise they begin to disagree. This young man’s mind was so vague that I simply could not be clear myself, because there seemed no point at which to begin; and I am sure that when he left he thought I was just a very crabbed and cranky fellow, and possibly an extreme reactionary. So that I was left fatigued and dissatisfied. But collective talking is no substitute for individual action and example. He said (it is a current kind of phrase) ‘we have only about three years in which to work before everything goes smash’; so I said, [‘]very likely there will be a smash, but if I thought that Christianity could not survive the smash I should consider that I had very little faith indeed’. But that got us nowhere. No doubt it is the weariness of talk and the desire to do something, individually, that makes Auden want to shoulder a musket in Catalonia.

NowAll Souls Club, Theto discuss 'Church, Community and State';a6 I must stop and go to the club to arrange with the steward about my old buffers dinner of the All Souls Club on Monday. We are to discuss ‘Church Community and State’, and I must make some notes for the purpose of leading off the discussion.

to my Emilie from her Tom

1.PaulLieder, Paul Robert Robert Lieder (1889–1956) – BA Harvard, 1910; MA, 1912; PhD, 1915 – was Professor of English Language and Literature, Smith College, 1925–54.

2.SendaAbbott, Senda Berenson Berenson Abbott, née Valvrojenski (1868–1954), a Lithuanian Jew by origin, was a sister of the art connoisseur and historian Bernard Berenson. At Smith College she was Director of the Gymnasium and Instructor of Physical Culture, introducing the first rules of women’s basketball and organising the first women’s college basketball game. In 1911 she married Herbert Vaughan Abbott, Professor of English at Smith College.

3.Rachel Berenson Perry (1880–1933), wife of Ralph Barton Perry (1876–1957), Edgar Pierce Professor of Philosophy, Harvard, from 1930; author of the Pulitzer-Prize-winning study The Thought and Character of William James (1935).

4.AdaWu Wen-Tsao Sheffield explained to TSE, in an undated letter, that Wu Wen-Tsao represented Yenching University at the Harvard Tercentenary celebration. Mrs Wu, who wrote poetry in Chinese, was a graduate student at Wellesley and taught at Yenching until her marriage.

5.LettersAuden, Wystan Hugh ('W. H.')Letters from Iceland (with MacNeice);c8 from Iceland, by Auden and Louis MacNeice, was scheduled for publication on 8 July 1937; it actually came out on 6 Aug. Faber Spring Books catalogue 1937, 33, on Iceland (as the book was provisionally titled): ‘We understand that the book will take the form of a series of letters, some in verse, some in prose, written from Iceland in the summer of 1936. The recipients of the letters include Lord Byron, a tourist, an employee of Shell-Mex, a member of the Oxford City Council, a Cambridge lady don, an Icelandic journalist, and a well-known young painter. In addition, Mr MacNeice contributes an eclogue between two tourists and the ghost of Grettir, Mr Auden some amateur photographs, and Mr William Coldstream some pen-and-ink sketches.

‘There may be a good many other books about Iceland and about other expeditions, but this is the only book by Mr Auden and Mr MacNeice.’

6.SeeAuden, Wystan Hugh ('W. H.')TSE on 'Letter to Lord Byron';b5n ‘Letter to Lord Byron’, in Letters from Iceland, by Auden and Louis MacNeice (1937). TSE to Auden, 10 Dec. 1936: ‘I must say that I started with as much prejudice against it as if you had told me that you had done something like the Rape of the Lock, only rather better. But actually it seems to me extremely successful, and is very different from a pastiche. I congratulate you.’ (Ezra Pound had ‘induced’ TSE to ‘destroy’ his own pastiche of The Rape of the Lock from the drafts of the ‘Fire Sermon’: see The Waste Land: A Fascimile & Transcript of the Original Drafts including the Annotations of Ezra Pound, ed. Valerie Eliot [1971], 23, 127.)

Abbott, Senda Berenson,

2.SendaAbbott, Senda Berenson Berenson Abbott, née Valvrojenski (1868–1954), a Lithuanian Jew by origin, was a sister of the art connoisseur and historian Bernard Berenson. At Smith College she was Director of the Gymnasium and Instructor of Physical Culture, introducing the first rules of women’s basketball and organising the first women’s college basketball game. In 1911 she married Herbert Vaughan Abbott, Professor of English at Smith College.

All Souls Club, The, TSE joins, first dinner with, discussion vague at second dinner, even vaguer at third, to discuss 'Church, Community and State', discusses adult baptism, discusses the Edinburgh Conference, discusses church music, discusses war policy, discusses Encyclical, and Revd Duncan-Jones,
Auden, Wystan Hugh ('W. H.'), and EP's 'Seafarer', TSE sends EH Poems, TSE recites 'To Gabriel Carritt', remembered by Ethel Swan, as dramatist, and Yeats's Mercury Theatre plans, Holmesian prank devised for, Doone wants for Westminster Theatre, collaborative efforts lamented by TSE, talks films at JDH's, strays from F&F, preoccupied with Byron and Barcelona, TSE on 'Letter to Lord Byron', as verse dramatist, away in Aragon for premiere, and Isherwood's plays versus Spender's, forgets to thank Keynes, TSE on his Isherwood plays, condoles TSE over Sandburg accusation, in bad odour, in America, circulating drollery on latest book-title, as pictured by TSE in America, Journey to a War (with Isherwood), Letters from Iceland (with MacNeice), New Year Letter, On the Frontier (with Isherwood), Paid on Both Sides, The Ascent of F6 (with Isherwood), The Dance of Death, The Dog Beneath the Skin (with Isherwood),

10.W. H. AudenAuden, Wystan Hugh ('W. H.') (1907–73), poet, playwright, librettist, translator, essayist, editor: see Biographical Register.

Barnes, Ernest, Bishop of Birmingham, too liberal for All Souls Club, and the Abdication Crisis,

3.ErnestBarnes, Ernest, Bishop of Birmingham Barnes (1874–1953), controversially liberal Bishop of Birmingham, 1924–53. An extreme modernist, he was later criticised for doubting the Virgin Birth and the Resurrection.

Blunt, Alfred, Bishop of Bradford, on the Abdication Crisis,
Christianity, and human isolation, and modern economics, Ada on TSE's personal piety, scheme for 'Pro Fide' bookshop, among the Eliot family, and beauty, its sects like different clubs, Anglo-Catholicism, TSE's conversion to, which he dates to Eccleston Square meeting, Anglican Missal sought for EH, but unfortunately out of print, discussed at Boston Theological School, and the Petrine Claims, apostolic succession, over Roman Catholicism, as refuge from VHE, and the Reformation, asceticism, discipline, rigour, the necessity for, and TSE's daily exhortation, making and breaking habits, mastering emotions and passions, as salubrious, only remedy for a prurient culture, confession and communion, more possible during Harvard year, the case for unattainable ideals, in time of war, gets TSE up before 7 o'clock, hereditary with TSE, belief, and good poetry, faced with Second World War, and conversion, antidote to TSE's skepticism, Christendom, TSE ponders the decline of, TSE on his prominence within, its ruin, the Church Visible and Invisible, and TSE's war work, the Malabar Church, prospect of total reunion within, confession, helps to objectify sin, more dreaded than dentist, harder in the morning, death and afterlife, the struggle to prepare for, consoles TSE in life, and cremation, Requiem Mass, gives meaning to life, and what makes a desirable burial place, the nature of eternal life, divorce, unrecognised by Anglo-Catholic Church, which TSE regrets, in church law, would separate TSE from Church, evil, TSE's belief in, and moral percipience, guilt, and the New England conscience, hell, TSE's 1910 vision of, and damnation, according to TSE, liturgy, TSE's weekly minimum, Mass of the Pre-sanctified, Requiem Mass versus Mass of Good Friday, and whether to serve at Mass, Imposition of Ashes, at Christmas, High Mass over Mattins, aversion to Low Church Mattins, Roman service in Wayland, Tenebrae, in country parish church, as guest at Kelham, remarkable sermon, over Christmas, Tenebrae and Family Reunion, during Holy Week, Mass of Charles King and Martyr, love, loving one's neighbour, marriage, TSE's need for privacy within, mysticism and transcendence, interpenetration of souls, intimations of life's 'pattern', 'doubleness', arrived at through reconciliation, orthodoxy, only remedy for contemporary culture, and pagans, sets TSE at odds with modernity, necessarily trinitarian, 'Christian' defined, iniquities of liberal theology, and creed, authority, Transubstantiation, TSE disclaims 'self-centredness' in maintaining, politics, the Church and social change, how denomination maps onto, need for working-class priests, church leaders against totalitarianism and Nazism, Christianity versus Fascism and Communism, Papal Encyclical against Nazi Germany, the 'Dividend morality', Presbyterianism, TSE quips on the meanness of, Quakerism, resignation, reconciliation, peace, TSE's love allows for, 'peace that passeth all understanding', the struggle to maintain, following separation from VHE, retreat and solitude, EH at Senexet, the need for, a need increasing with age, and TSE's mother, Roman Catholicism, TSE's counter-factual denomination, Rome, sacraments, Holy Communion, marriage, sainthood, TSE's idea of, the paradoxes of, susceptible of different sins, sins, vices, faults, how to invigilate, the sense of sin, the sinner's condition, bound up with the virtues, as a way to virtue, TSE's self-appraisal, when humility shades into, when unselfishness shades into, among saints, proportionate to spiritual progress, daydreaming, despair, lust, pride, perfection-seeking pride, spiritual progress and direction, TSE's crisis of 1910–11, EH's crisis, versus automatism, TSE's sense of, towards self-knowledge, in EH's case, as personal regeneration, temptation, to action/busyness, the Church Year, Advent, Christmas, dreaded, happily over, TSE rebuked for bah-humbugging, church trumps family during, season of irreligion, thoughts of EH during, unsettling, fatiguing, in wartime, Easter preferred to, Ash Wednesday, Lent, season for meditation and reading, prompts thoughts of EH, Lady Day, Holy Week, its intensity, arduous, preserved from public engagements, exhausting but refreshing, excitingly austere, Easter, better observed than Christmas, missed through illness, Unitarianism, the Eliots' as against EH's, the prospect of spiritual revival within, as personified by TSE's grandfather, regards the Bible as literature, as against Catholicism, divides EH from TSE, and whether Jesus believed himself divine, according to Dr Perkins, in England as against America, over-dependent on preachers' personality, TSE's wish that EH convert from, outside TSE's definition of 'Christian', the issue of communion, baptism, impossibly various, virtues heavenly and capital, bound up with the vices, better reached by way of sin, charity, towards others, in Bubu, TSE's intentness on, delusions of, as against tolerance, chastity, celibacy, beneath humility, TSE lacks vocation for, faith, and doubt, hope, a duty, TSE's struggle for, humility, distinguished from humiliation, comes as relief, greatest of the virtues, propinquitous to humour, not an Eliot virtue, opposed to timidity, danger of pride in, is endless, TSE criticised for overdoing, theatre a lesson in, most difficult of the virtues, possessed by EH, possessed by EH to a fault, TSE compares himself to EH in, the paradox of, distinguished from inferiority, self-discovery teaches, possessed by Dr Perkins, patience, recommended to EH, its foundations, possessed by Uncle John, purity, distinguished from purification, temperance, with alcohol, beneath humility,
communism, TSE's fantasy political party conceived against, communists satirised in The Rock, communists known to TSE, essentially antagonistic to Christianity, discussed with Bunny Wilson, and unemployment, as against fascism, the church's case against, preferred to conservatism, TSE asked to sign Christian manifesto against, as inspiration for Auden and Isherwood's collaboration, preached by Cecil Day Lewis, and Middleton Murry, during the Cold War, Margaret Thorp's liberal hypocrises over,
'drugs', activity ('being useful'), necessity, controversy, pain, either public or inner life,
Eliot, Margaret Dawes (TSE's sister), not a suitable confidant, scandalised by Henry's detective story, threatens to visit England, compared to VHE, wishes to arrange TSE's birthday party, remote from TSE, TSE and Henry visit, TSE dreads visiting Uncle Rob with, drains TSE, takes TSE to hear spirituals, her history, amazes TSE by attending Norton lecture, celebrates 61st birthday at Marion's, remembered in St. Louis, unwanted presence on holiday, reason for avoiding Boston, supported Landon over FDR, in response to 1930s controversies, compared to Irene Hale, imposes on Henry, tends to monologue, her reclusive hotel existence, Henry describes moving house for, her condition, TSE leaves money with, Thanksgiving with, efforts to support financially, death, funeral, TSE's final visit to,

6.MargaretEliot, Margaret Dawes (TSE's sister) Dawes Eliot (1871–1956), TSE's second-oldest sister sister, resident in Cambridge, Mass. In an undated letter (1952) to his Harvard friend Leon M. Little, TSE wrote: ‘Margaret is 83, deaf, eccentric, recluse (I don’t think she has bought any new clothes since 1900).’

Europe, and Henry James, through the 1930s, its importance for America, potentially inspired by FDR, in the event of war, seems more alive than America, the effects of war on, its post-war future, its post-war condition, the possibility of Federal Union, TSE's sense of duty towards,
fascism, and the unemployment crisis, essentially anti-Christian, The Rock's 'modern ballet' on, 'beastly', corrupts TSE's image of Rome, possible subject for July 1936 'Commentary', and the Spanish Civil War, TSE asked to sign Christian manifesto against, TSE accused of,
Lieder, Paul Robert,

1.PaulLieder, Paul Robert Robert Lieder (1889–1956) – BA Harvard, 1910; MA, 1912; PhD, 1915 – was Professor of English Language and Literature, Smith College, 1925–54.

Perry, Rachel Berenson, a friend,
see also Perrys, the

4.RachelPerry, Rachel Berenson Berenson Perry (1880–1933), wifePerry, Ralph Barton of Ralph Barton Perry (1876–1957), Chair of the Philosophy Department at Harvard University, 1906–14; from 1930, Edgar Pierce Professor of Philosophy; author of the Pulitzer-Prize winning study The Thought and Character of William James (1935).

Perry, Ralph Barton,
see also Perrys, the

4.RachelPerry, Rachel Berenson Berenson Perry (1880–1933), wifePerry, Ralph Barton of Ralph Barton Perry (1876–1957), Chair of the Philosophy Department at Harvard University, 1906–14; from 1930, Edgar Pierce Professor of Philosophy; author of the Pulitzer-Prize winning study The Thought and Character of William James (1935).

Temple, William, Archbishop of York (later of Canterbury), consulted over 'Thoughts After Lambeth', invites TSE to unemployment conference, as administrator, sustains 'Intercommunion' correspondence with TSE, unworthy of his see, incorrigible signatory, careless enthusiast, TSE writes talk on education for, his death,

10.WilliamTemple, William, Archbishop of York (later of Canterbury) Temple (1881–1944), Anglican clergyman, Archbishop of York and later of Canterbury: see Biographical Register.

Wu Wen-Tsao,

4.AdaWu Wen-Tsao Sheffield explained to TSE, in an undated letter, that Wu Wen-Tsao represented Yenching University at the Harvard Tercentenary celebration. Mrs Wu, who wrote poetry in Chinese, was a graduate student at Wellesley and taught at Yenching until her marriage.