Emily Hale to T. S. Eliot
Concord, Massachusetts
I trust very sincerely you are safely back from this long expected final assignment at Aix – a sword of Damocles I call it – andCocktail Party, TheEH begs TSE to continue;b6 that now you will try to give yourself a little peace of body and mind – and continue creative work on your play. I wish you could say ‘no’ to even what you call engagements of ‘obligation’ (outside Faber & Faber) – you are too prone to be afraid of hurting someone by refusal – when I think it is now more of an obligation to create for the world at large – if I may say so. IMirrlees, Emily Lina ('Mappie', née Moncrieff);g2 am truly sad for you that your dear friend, of long standing, Mrs Mirrlees, has by this time probably gone to her well deserved rest. A true loss for you, my dear, and I am very sorry. How very much you brought to her of happiness, Tom – I trust you will admit that to help comfort your missing of her.
I am practising what I preach by writing hastily as I have a few minutes before the mid-week trek to Andover. The weather has been very bad lately – much rain and wind – and it will be nice to see some sunshine and not travel always for rain preparedness. YesThorp, Margaret (née Farrand);c2, of course, the enclosed letter was from M. Thorp – I have called her Maggie for years – and I know no one else in Princeton. SheThorp, Willarddue to teach at Harvard;c3 spent a night in Concord 2 weeks ago and visited with me at dinner & breakfast before going in to look over the house in Cambridge they have taken for the summer, when Willard teaches at Harvard.1
My plans are awfully vague for many reasons, at present. More later. I’m sorry not to write more fully along lines about which you inquire – don’t become a ‘public symbol’, my dear. What tragic words. It is just from that, I must add, that I had hoped to keep you from becoming. Perhaps I still may, if you will just help yourself to keep as personal as you can in your own thoughts of your life, to other private lives.
1.The Thorps were living at 57 Francis Avenue, Cambridge 38, Mass.
3.HopeMirrlees, Emily Lina ('Mappie', née Moncrieff) Mirrlees’s mother was Emily Lina Mirrlees, née Moncrieff (1862–1948) – known as ‘Mappie’ or ‘Mappy’ – see Biographical Register.
16.MargaretThorp, Margaret (née Farrand) Farrand (1891–1970), author and journalist – see Margaret Thorp in Biographical Register.
1.Margaret Thorp, née Farrand (1891–1970), contemporary and close friend of EH; noted author and biographer. WillardThorp, Willard Thorp (1899–1990) was a Professor of English at Princeton University. See Biographical Register. See further Lyndall Gordon, Hyacinth Girl, 126–8, 158–9.