{"id":5046,"date":"2017-04-27T16:05:51","date_gmt":"2017-04-27T16:05:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/?p=5046"},"modified":"2023-02-15T16:26:00","modified_gmt":"2023-02-15T16:26:00","slug":"introducing-mrs-eliot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/introducing-mrs-eliot\/","title":{"rendered":"Introducing Mrs Eliot&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In the spring of 1958 the (relatively) new Mr and Mrs Eliot travelled to America for a month so that T. S. Eliot could introduce his new wife, Valerie, to his family. They sailed from Southampton to New York aboard the <em>Media<\/em> before flying to Texas for lecture engagements and then on to Cambridge, via New York, to spend time with various members of the Eliot family. Robert Giroux, Eliot&#8217;s friend and publisher, arranged a tour of lectures and readings which would have contributed towards the cost of the trip.<\/p>\n<p>We are fortunate that so many wonderful snaps from the trip survive. Here are some of the highlights in the Eliots&#8217; own pictures.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5033\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5033\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5033 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Cunard-Line-300x201.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"201\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Cunard-Line-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Cunard-Line-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Cunard-Line-1024x687.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Cunard-Line.jpg 1487w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5033\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">New York, 1958<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The Eliots&#8217; first views of New York as they came in to dock at the Cunard Line terminal. You can just make out the silhouette of the Empire State Building through the smog.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5035\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5035\" style=\"width: 247px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5035\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_1-300x219.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"247\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_1-300x219.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_1-768x561.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_1-1024x747.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_1.jpg 1488w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 247px) 100vw, 247px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5035\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">T. S. Eliot on the <em>Media<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5037\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5037\" style=\"width: 252px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5037\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_2-300x148.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"252\" height=\"124\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_2-300x148.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_2-768x379.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_2-1024x505.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-on-Media_2.jpg 1143w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 252px) 100vw, 252px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5037\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">T. S. Eliot&#8217;s caption on the reverse<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T. S. Eliot aboard the <em>Media<\/em> on the the day of their arrival in New York \u2013 19th April 1958 \u2013 waiting to dock ahead of dinner with Robert Giroux and Charles Reilly.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5057\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5057\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5057 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Giroux-with-car-300x195.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"195\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Giroux-with-car-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Giroux-with-car-768x499.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Giroux-with-car-1024x665.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Giroux-with-car.jpg 1619w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5057\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Robert Giroux<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5060\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5060\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5060 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Giroux-300x216.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"216\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Giroux-300x216.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Giroux-768x553.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Giroux-1024x737.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Giroux.jpg 1483w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5060\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Robert Giroux and T. S. Eliot<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>As well as get-togethers in New York, Robert Giroux accompanied the Eliots to Texas, overseeing the tour which included lectures at the University of Texas and Southern Methodist University (SMU).<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5065\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5065\" style=\"width: 208px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5065 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Reilly-Sheriff-badge-208x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"208\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Reilly-Sheriff-badge-208x300.jpg 208w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Reilly-Sheriff-badge-768x1109.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Reilly-Sheriff-badge-709x1024.jpg 709w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Reilly-Sheriff-badge.jpg 1110w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 208px) 100vw, 208px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5065\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">T. S. Eliot and Charles Reilly<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In Dallas, Eliot was made an honorary sheriff and given a Stetson hat and sheriff&#8217;s badge. He can be seen here showing off the badge with Charles Reilly.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5071\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5071\" style=\"width: 328px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5071 \" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Giroux-in-garden-300x203.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"328\" height=\"222\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Giroux-in-garden-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Giroux-in-garden-768x519.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Giroux-in-garden-1024x692.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Eliot-and-Giroux-in-garden.jpg 1639w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 328px) 100vw, 328px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5071\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Garden gathering (L\u2013R: unidentified woman, Valerie Eliot, T. S. Eliot, Robert Giroux).<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>A sunny garden gathering, presumably in Texas, with T. S. Eliot and Robert Giroux in sunglasses.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5079\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5079\" style=\"width: 286px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5079 \" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Family-gathering-2-300x221.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"286\" height=\"210\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Family-gathering-2-300x221.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Family-gathering-2-768x566.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Family-gathering-2-1024x755.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Family-gathering-2.jpg 1493w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 286px) 100vw, 286px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5079\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Eliot family gathering<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5075\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5075\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5075 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marion-300x208.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"208\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marion-300x208.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marion-768x532.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marion-1024x709.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marion.jpg 1403w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5075\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">T. S. Eliot in his Stetson with sister Marion<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>After\u00a0a &#8216;feverishly busy week&#8217; in Texas and a few days in New York, the Eliots travelled up to Cambridge, Massachusetts where they spent three weeks meeting various members of the Eliot family, including T. S. Eliot&#8217;s last surviving sister Marion, and sister-in-law Theresa Garrett Eliot.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5083\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5083\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5083 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-Valerie-and-Theresa-300x215.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"215\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-Valerie-and-Theresa-300x215.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-Valerie-and-Theresa-768x550.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-Valerie-and-Theresa-1024x733.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-Valerie-and-Theresa.jpg 1446w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5083\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Theresa Garrett Eliot, T. S. Eliot, Valerie Eliot<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>During their time in Masschusetts, the Eliots&#8217; social engagements included an evening at the Harvard boat club where Robert Lowell recalled in a letter to Elizabeth Bishop (21 June 1958) that the Eliots &#8216;danced so dashingly &#8230; that he was called &#8220;Elbows Eliot&#8221;.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5118\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5118\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5118 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marianne-Moore-1-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marianne-Moore-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marianne-Moore-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marianne-Moore-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-and-Marianne-Moore-1.jpg 1477w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5118\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">T. S. Eliot with Marianne Moore and Marion Dorn<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>While in New York, the Eliots arranged to meet with various authors, publishers, and friends, including poet Marianne Moore and textile designer Marion Dorn.<\/p>\n<p>Robert Giroux tells a story about the moment this photograph was taken in his article &#8216;Remembering T. S. Eliot: poet, editor and friend&#8217; (1988) &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;She [Moore] told Elizabeth Bishop that when Valerie Eliot took a snapshot of her husband and Marianne together, she told him to put his arm around Marianne. &#8220;Well, did he?&#8221; Elizabeth asked and Marianne said, &#8220;Yes, but gingerly&#8221;.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5085\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5085\" style=\"width: 217px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5085 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Valerie-taken-by-TSE-217x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"217\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Valerie-taken-by-TSE-217x300.jpg 217w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Valerie-taken-by-TSE-768x1062.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Valerie-taken-by-TSE-740x1024.jpg 740w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Valerie-taken-by-TSE.jpg 1052w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 217px) 100vw, 217px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5085\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Valerie Eliot, taken by T. S. Eliot<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5086\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5086\" style=\"width: 181px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5086\" src=\"http:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-caption-to-Valerie-300x279.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"181\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-caption-to-Valerie-300x279.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-caption-to-Valerie-768x714.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/TSE-caption-to-Valerie.jpg 849w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 181px) 100vw, 181px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5086\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">T. S. Eliot&#8217;s caption on the reverse<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This last photograph of Valerie was taken by Eliot himself. Eliot has annotated the print on the back, describing his shot as &#8216;very artistic&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the spring of 1958 the (relatively) new Mr and Mrs Eliot travelled to America for a month so that T. S. Eliot could introduce his new wife, Valerie, to his family. They sailed from Southampton to New York aboard the Media before flying to Texas for lecture engagements and then on to Cambridge, via &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/introducing-mrs-eliot\/\">Continued<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"acf":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5046"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5046"}],"version-history":[{"count":58,"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5046\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16129,"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5046\/revisions\/16129"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5046"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5046"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tseliot.com\/foundation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5046"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}